Saturday, April 14, 2007

Letting Go






To let go doesn't mean to stop caring;
It means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off...
It's the realization that I can't control another...
To let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try and change or blame another,
I can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.
To let go is not to be protective,
It is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more.

8 comments:

sweeti said...

Letting go...It reminds me april 2006
on my space if ur interested
watch my entry I let my mom go...
My god .............
u know the song on my space....I was in shower yesterday morning
i heard this song .....its an oldy..i remembered...i wanted this to share with u all...coz with time..dont we all dont we wanna turn back time????Yes ....i do.

Lots of hugs

Rajeev said...

Thanx for ur comment upon my blog.
Hey that was an amazing post.
and sooo true.
Every word.
Ill link ur blog. i hope u dont mind.

Peace & Love
JeeVY

Rajeev said...

btw i loved ur blog description :)
very well written.

Peace & Love
JeeVY

confessing7girl said...

the ending is just amazing!! very good words of advice!!!!! thanx!!

poeta_silente said...

Beijos, amiga

Aditi said...

well written,..
everything's in a ordered form and explaining the meaning...

Shruti said...

Lovely post...explains the basic fandas of life... to cherish each and every moment of life..
Take care...

Mona said...

hey thanks for visiting....and dear, now the concept of 5th dimension is also coming..im not aware of that but then thats is in process....